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Monday manifestation series :Manifestation Magic: Creating Your Ideal Life Together

  Welcome to the second series of the Monday Manifest Series! It's wonderful to have you here as we continue our journey of co-creating and manifesting our dreams. In this series, we will dive deeper into the practice of manifestation and explore the power of making manifesting a collective experience. Manifestation is not just an individual endeavor; it becomes even more powerful when we come together as a community, supporting and inspiring one another along the way. By joining forces, we amplify our manifestation energy and create a space where dreams become reality. Today, I invite you to join me in harnessing the power of collective manifestation. Take a moment to reflect on the dreams and desires you have been manifesting in your own life. What are the intentions and goals you are working towards? What visions do you hold in your heart? Now, let's take this journey of manifestation together. In the comments section below, I encourage you to share what you are currently...

Too much freedom?




Having your own freedom is fun. No rules and regulations. You may decide that "My car, my petrol, my life". If you are a fun type of person You could spend most of your time partying, hanging out with friends, eating restaurant food etc. Simply, because nobody is there to put any boundaries.

About one and half year ago, I met a friend of mine. I always wished if I had the freedom just like she had. Always assumed that she was so lucky. 




But this time I was surprised that she didn't look happy at all. She was always a fun person. I asked her about the situation. 

The reply was reasonable enough for her unhappiness. 

She said that she have misused her freedom. After college, she just spent money on unwanted things and partying a lot. Comparing to other friends, she haven't achieved anything in life. Haven't done any investments. 

Most interesting thing she told me was,
 "you guys are lucky" 
I grimaced. I always used to think that she was lucky. Further she continued

"i wished that someone would have told me earlier to have good habits,invest, and be more disciplined". This really made me cry.

I grew up in a home with lots of rules and regulations. I always urged for freedom. To take my own decisions. But today I'm really grateful for everything. For each and every rules and regulations. These things made me the person which i am today. Too much freedom sometimes makes you go astray. Not everybody i mean. There are two types of people you know? 

Those people who have got freedom and successful in life are super super lucky. But not everybody are alike. There are capable people and non capable people. 

But everybody, definitely can gain success in life.

Here is an advice for all the people who had freedom and failed. You are not a failure. You definitely can gain success in your life.

Last week once again I met the same friend. Once again I was surprised. How she had improved in her life for the past year. She's another level up in her life now. She is independent and gaining success.

I asked her about the change.

She told me that she had been spending her last year by reading self improvement books, a healthy eating habbit with also a good saving habit and tried being more disciplined. 

She stopped partying, spending lots of money on unwanted things and started doing a good career. 

Meanwhile, she found her soulmate and planning to get married by this year. I'm happy for her.

Please don't think that you are a failure. You can gain success from your effort. Just like my friend who's gaining success day by day.

Today I don't regret for the rules I had in my life. I'm happy! Nothing bad had happened to me all these years.

For all the lucky guys out there with freedom. Use your freedom wisely. Use your freedom to gain success in your life as much as you can.

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