You call it Attitude, I call it self respect!

 It is hard to handle people nowadays.  The person today is not the person you see tomorrow. People change! But still, you have to go your journey. 

It is hard to muster the fact that EVERYTHING IS TEMPORARILY. The people who loved you the most might hate you tomorrow,  your best friend might be someone else's best friend some day, yesterday they cared, today they don't! Sometimes Even your lover would do the same thing no matter how much they loved you. Even your shadow leaves you in the dark. This is life. Still, life goes on and on.

You might need answers for these?

I know that it is a unbearable pain if somebody leaves you from your life.

Here's is an advice,

If somebody ignored you, just don't care about them anymore. Just leave everything in God's hand and don't go behind anyone begging to stay in your life. This is not ATTITUDE. This is called SELF RESPECT.

Always keep in mind, You are not the person who's gonna miss them. They are the ones who is going to miss you someday.  And definitely they are going to regret for loosing you.

The best revenge you can give someone is not, cursing them or hoping bad things would happen in their lives. 

Or else broadcasting all the secrets you know about them is not an option. Some do this which I don't think is cool! 

Keeping secret safe when your friend is not your friend any more is called integrity.

Good people don't do these things!

Being out of negativity gives you high standards. Although people don't say it, they might assume from their inner mind about your loyalty towards your friend.

NEVER PUSH A LOYAL PERSON TO THE POINT WHERE THEY DONT GIVE A DAMN!

Anyway, don't mind if people leave you. Usually, people go for cheap products if they can't afford the expensive. 

Know the worth of yourself!

Let's assume you did a mistake. One mistake would make a person forget all the good you have done before. 

Mistakes happen, you learn from your mistakes.  Nobody is perfect.  But still, if they can't forgive and keeps repeating about your fault, just leave! That would be a better option.

Although you are right, still people may blame you. That means they don't know the value of you. Your value doesn't decrease, based on someone's inability to see your worth. 

You will see attitudes and self respect playing a major role in your life mainly when your going through pain because somebody important in your life have left or ignored you.

The best thing you can do is make them understand and make them feel regretted.

Pain changes people. Some becomes rude, some become silent. As we always  want to stay out of negativity and have higher vibes being rude is not a option.

Lets be silence and be successful! And make them regret. Pain is a major reason behind success. 

WORK HARD IN SILENCE, LET SUCCESS BE YOUR NOISE.

Identify your abilities and start working on them. Start earning.

Once you are successful, even all your unknown relatives will come saying for relationships.

Everyone will start coming back to you. Some may regret for leaving you. 

What will you do? Will you accept them?

I would say, accept them.

Have ATTITUDES! But not BAD ATTITUDES.

I say, forgive! Forgiveness is the best revenge after all.  You already had the revenge with your success and making them regret.

But don't forget! Don't forget the lessons they gave you. You may know the character of the person whom your dealing with and never fall for anybody ever again. This is life experience.

By the way, don't waste your time in anger,regrets, worries and grudges. Life is too short to be unhappy!

But keep your SELF RESPECT high! Don't go behind anyone on the contrary make them come back to you.

Keep your STATUS and STANDARDS high.